Valentine’s Day is two weeks away and homeroom moms everywhere are gearing up to plan friendship parties. For many parents of children with food allergies, this can cause high levels of anxiety.
I’ll be honest, my son has outgrown the age where they celebrate Valentine’s at school, but I have a few tried and true tips that might help you if your child will be celebrating at school:
- Volunteer to be homeroom mom for the party. If that job is already taken, volunteer to be a helper and offer to purchase all the food so you can choose safe options for your child’s classroom.
- Volunteer for party set up so you can see how food is distributed and avoid harmful cross contamination of party treats.
- Make your child similar foods. If I spoke with the teacher ahead of time and deemed the food at the party to be unsafe, I simply made a like item at home and brought it to my son on a clean Valentine paper plate from home. Most kids were never the wiser and my son didn’t have to make his food allergies the center of attention and could just enjoy the party.
- Go through your child’s Valentine’s bags or mailboxes before he/she opens them up. In my experience, most teachers have an “open your Valentine’s at home” policy that will allow you to do so.
- Create a trade-in program for your child. I let my son trade in potentially unsafe treats to me and I would give him some safe candy or holiday trinkets that I bought for him.
That last bullet point used to be difficult for us…there are only so many pencils and stickers a child can get before they become tiresome. Luckily, we have more options today when it comes to non-food holiday treats. In my opinion, Oriental Trading Company makes finding such items a cinch…and all from the comfort of your home computer while you shop in your pajamas! And, of course, be sure to visit their coupon page to look for some awesome deals!
*Disclaimer: Oriental Trading did not pay me to write this post and the opinions expressed within are my own. They did, however, send me some free Valentine’s Day promotional items to test out myself. My family and I plan to donate these items to a local Houston hospital for children with health and dietary restrictions. My thanks to Oriental Trading for this opportunity to brighten the lives of others!*
Here are just a few of the adorable Oriental Trading goodies I am blessed to review:
Years ago, when my family was just beginning our food allergy journey, one of the traditions I missed the most was decorating our annual gingerbread house.
With Christmas carols playing in the background, my mom, sister, and grandmother and I would gather around the counter in my grandmother’s kitchen to decorate our annual gingerbread house. Honestly, I think there was more horseplay and laughter than there was actual work…as it should be for such a family tradition. A couple of hours and a change of clothes later, it was a joy to admire our creation. These are some of the sweetest memories I have of spending time with my grandmother and I cherish them to this day.
Because of that, building and decorating a gingerbread house became a time-honored tradition in our family…a tradition I would not be able to carry on with my own family because it would be an allergen minefield.
Or so I thought.
Thanks to an incredibly awesome company called Izzi B’s, my family and I ARE able to carry on this tradition every year. More importantly, it is a way to carry on the love and laughter of family as we crowd around and create a masterpiece in between giggles and some really off-tune Christmas caroling!
Here is my gingerbread house kit from a previous year when the kids were still too little to help me do much other than eat it.
Have you heard about the Teal Pumpkin Project? It is a nation-wide effort to provide all children with a safe, special treat when they go trick-or-treating on Halloween night.
The best part is that ANYONE can participate and other than purchasing safe, non-food treats for trick-or-treaters in place of candy…it’s FREE!!!
Since Halloween candy has been out since the second week of September here, there’s definitely no shortage of that.
But what about reasonably priced non-food Halloween treats? Those aren’t quite as readily available at your local grocery or drug store. And who has time to go racing from store to store looking for a budget-friendly options that will be enough for the hoards of trick-or-treaters you’re expecting.
No time. Small budget. No options. It’s October 11th…Halloween is in 20 days.
What to do?
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Are you walking in a FARE Food Allergy Walk near you? This is something my family and I have participated in every year…almost since the walk’s institution. It is truly a fantastic family event that does not cost for you to participate in (although fundraising is encouraged and welcome).
Here are just some of the fun and exciting events related to the Houston FARE Food Allergy Walk. Read all about it and then COME BE A PART OF IT for FREE by joining The Food Allergy Mom team! Continue reading